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How To Get Your Motivation Going – Ed And Deb Shapiro

by Ed And Deb Shapiro: We watched as an eager young CNN television reporter asked the Dalai Lama what was the first thing he thought of when he awoke in the morning…

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We thought that this revered teacher and probably the world’s most well known meditator would say something deeply profound or insightful, such as along the lines of vowing to save the world from its own ignorance.

Instead he simply replied, ‘Shaping My Movitivation’

He said how he needs to stay vigilant so his intentions are focused in a positive direction, and that shaping his motivation on a daily basis reminds him to extend loving kindness to all beings. We were surprised to hear that even the Dalai Lama, one of the kindest people we have ever met, needs to be reminded to extend loving kindness!

Those two words – shaping motivation – apply both to our personal actions and communication with others, as much as to our more lofty or altruistic intentions. They create a simple affirmation that both inspires and reminds us of goodness.

Motivation guides our behavior and determines whether our intent is arising out of selfishness or selflessness. Just as there are those whose incentives are greed, hatred or power, so to determine our own hidden agenda we can ask: Are we being motivated by kindness, forgiveness and generosity, or by of judgment, blame or shame? Too often we affirm our weaknesses, failings or faults, saying things like: “I’m not good enough” or “I always get it wrong,” which only serves to instill even greater hopelessness or shame. The more we confirm our negative patterns by putting ourselves down, undermining our capabilities or worthiness, the more negative we become. To get our motivation going we need to affirm our basic goodness instead.

Affirmations are not a way of denying reality; they are not saying that everything is wonderful when obviously it’s not. They simply help us move out of repetitive and negative thinking by creating a healthy and creative attitude to all the difficulties that hold us in destructive mind states. An affirmation will not take away the cause of stress, but it will help us deal with stress in a more constructive way. The affirmation is a reminder that we are basically good, basically sane and healthy, that we really are loving, patient, strong and capable.

Repeating an affirmation is a way of taking action to make a difference, rather than staying stuck in old ways or sinking deeper into self-pity, despair or indifference. Whatever we pay attention to will become our reality; by changing the mindset we change our perception. Our old behavior is highlighted as it now goes against the behavior we are affirming. For instance, if we are affirming that we are loving and caring, then we will be far more aware any time we behave in an uncaring or angry way.

Doing It

Like the Dalai Lama’s simple affirmation, when you create one for yourself let it be realistic and to the point, a positive statement that reflects your deeper intent. Don’t try and change everything at once, or try to work on more than one or two issues at a time. It should be quite short, so that it is easy to remember. Focus on what is your immediate priority and start there, perhaps something like: “I am a fully loving and caring person,” “With every breath I am more at peace” or “I am flowing through my day with ease.” Repeat it as often as you like and enjoy 🙂

Award-Winning Authors Ed and Deb of The Unexpected Power of Mindfulness & Meditation, are mindfulness, meditation and yoga experts. Deb’s new novel is: Merging: Women in Love — what happens when you fall in love with the least likely person of the least likely gender? – and she is the author of Your Body Speaks Your Mind, now in 19 languages. They have three meditation CDs.

Source:  Ed and Deb Shapiro

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