by Serj Sagan: If you have ever watched Friends then you may have seen the episode where Monica gives Chandler sex advice and in a funny way talks about the 7 erogenous zones of women. Is this a real fact or is this just a make belief idea that was used for the show. We will discuss this idea and find out whether there are these zones and if they do in fact send women into orgasmic heaven.
The first thing we discovered is that there are more than 7 erogenous zones as different women’s bodies have different zones. However, there are commonly agreed upon zones. We discuss them in no particular order, so trying to figure out what zones Monica refers to when she is calling out the numbers will not help.
The ears are the first of the erogenous zones. Nibbling, sucking, or licking the earlobes specifically can send waves of pleasure through a woman. Some women also enjoy having warm air blown into their ears, whispering, or licking, sucking and nibbling the ear itself. This is an area that can stimulate your lover very strongly, but must be approached with some care. First of all, not all women enjoy this. Second, many women will enjoy this more if it is done later in foreplay; so don’t start with the ears, perhaps do it after you’ve covered the neck, lips and nipples.
Lips are the second erogenous zone that we will go over. Lips are perhaps the first step of foreplay and are most likely to last throughout the whole love-making. Kissing is significantly important in making a woman have the difference between an “eh” orgasm and an “oh, wow!” orgasm. Kissing must be done right. If you are unsure about your kissing expertise then sometimes the best thing you can do is let go of you inhibitions and let your feelings tell your mouth what to do, i.e. you stay out of it. Don’t try to think, “well, we haven’t tried this way of kissing”, or “we have been doing this one for a while, let’s try something else.” No, let your passions lead the way. That being said, having knowledge of how to kiss and especially of how your lady likes to be kissed is usually better at sending your lady into ecstasy.
We will discuss the neck third. The neck is also a very stimulating area for a woman. This area perhaps is one of the more difficult to get right. First, different women respond to neck stimulation differently. Some prefer lighter, gentle kissing. Others women prefer to be ravaged on the neck almost like a vampire bite. On top of that each woman has different spots on her neck that send those sparks of electricity through her body. And as if that was not enough each woman has a different time that she will respond to this stimulation, some enjoy it throughout lovemaking others prefer it toward the end, when they are close to orgasm, and still others prefer it during foreplay. This is an area that should be practiced with a long term partner during casual sex, that way when it is time to turn up the heat, you will have the neck mastered as well.
Nipples, areola, and the breasts are an excellent and amazing erogenous area of 3 zones. It is quite easy to stimulate the breast area on any woman although proper technique is something that will develop with time. If you need some basic tips you can start by sucking on the nipple, while you are sucking twist your tongue in a clockwise direction around the nipple, start the twisting slow, then go faster and faster. One thing to watch out for on the nipple is that different women can take different amounts of pressure before it becomes painful for them. Another thing to do is while you are doing the sucking tongue thing, take as much of both breasts in your hands as you can and begin to squeeze at the same time. This one also is one to watch out for as far as how much pressure the woman’s breast will take before it becomes painful. This is one of those really strange body parts that mysteriously is very pleasurable for a man to touch.
Buttocks or Anus is another erogenous zone. This is one of those however that cannot be used by everyone and especially not every time. The butt cheeks are excellent place to squeeze or even slap in the right situations. The butt hole is another area altogether. This one requires foremost, trust. Your girl must totally trust that you would not do anything she wouldn’t like. If she doesn’t, instead of bringing her closer to an orgasm, she will concentrate on the finger that you have on her butt hole. Also you must be pretty confident that your girl actually wipes her butt really well or she took a shower, otherwise she will instantly know that you just touched something that made you disgusted. If all of these are okay, do not actually stick your finger in the hole; just apply pressure to the area and do a tiny but rapid vibration, and do this closer to her climax…do not do this too early in your lovemaking. On a final note, if she tells you that she doesn’t like it, do not try it again that session, and not all girls enjoy this so perhaps do not try it ever again.
Feet and toes are another one of the erogenous zones. This is actually somewhat similar to the above because some women do in fact find that their toes/feet are an extremely personal, sensual, and pleasurable zone; just as many do find it to be too sensitive (ticklish) or not pleasurable at all because many women have a complex of one kind or another with their feet. Some have big feet, others have feet deformities, and still others can’t get their feet to smell good, or at least they think that. If your girl actually loves her feet being touched then, provided that you also enjoy it, by all means lick and suck and touch them. Sometimes it can be helpful to ask the girl for advice on how she prefers them to be touched, she will more than likely enjoy giving you “orders.”
The last erogenous zone that we will discuss is the genitalia, which has 5 zones in itself, including the clitoris, anterior fornix or a-spot, u-spot or lips of the vagina, the Grafenberg spot or more commonly known as the G-spot, and the uterus. This is where most men spend their time so there is little to discuss here. A few things that I will mention is that if you do not know about any of these 5 areas then you should learn all you can about it. Some for example the uterine orgasm requires a fairly long penis to get that deep inside a girl, so your options will be either to try to enlarge your penis using any of the various male enhancement options that are out there, or give up on the prospect of doing that altogether. The 4 other most if not all men can learn to pleasure, whether it is with your penis, your tongue or your fingers.
Now that you know that there are so many more options for creating pleasure in your woman, other than the few that you already know about, why not try a few of them; or do you dare try all of these techniques, to pleasure your girl so much that she will be willing to pleasure you in any way that you could ever want?
About The Author
Serj Sagan is the CEO and owner of a Male Enhancement Pills company. Dedicated to find the real truth about male enhancement products and companies and expose it to the consumer. Copyright 2010 http://www.enhancementresearch.com This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.
Jules Kim, a jeweler known for designing pieces Rooney Mara wore in “The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo” as well as for Beyonce and Rihanna, says, “I believe sexuality is not just of the body. Massaging the ego can be just as titillating as stroking a breast. Erogenous zones are about opening up people’s worlds, and offering possibilities.” Jules, whose avant-garde jewelry, she says, “gilds the body,” elaborates: “It’s the dance that’s so sexy. A glance, a chance touch — the in-between moments before the act of sex that makes you want the person more and more. It’s more complex than insinuating the sexual act; it’s about leaving a door open for opportunities.” In other words, seduction is an art form, and it’s practiced most on the imagination.
The Backs Of The Knees
“It’s not particularly groundbreaking, but it feels good,” says poet and academic Caroline Hagood. What Caroline calls the “body’s little surprises” is a major theme in her collection of poetry “Lunatic Speaks,” “With behind the knees, I guess it’s just the surprise of being touched in a place that almost never gets touched. It’s startling. I think it’s similar to the moment when you use a mirror to see any part of your body you don’t normally look at. I found out that I have a strange constellation of freckles on my back the other day, and that’s just another one of the body’s little surprises.” So startling, unexpected touches can be extremely arousing.
Trend forecaster and stylist Jenna Perry says any attention paid to her stomach drives her wild. Since Jenna has chiseled abs and a pin-up girl’s tiny waist, I couldn’t help but wonder if the stomach was her erogenous zone because she feels particularly confident about this body part. “Yes,” she admitted. “Also,” she adds, “My stomach is really ticklish, but not in a bad way.” The message here: body parts women feel especially good about deserve a little extra attention. The combination of a woman’s personal confidence and another’s adoration is hot!
The Arch Of The Foot
This is my spot.If someone asked me to choose between a foot massage and sex, it would be a hard choice. Put the two together, and I will be sent over the edge: pressure applied to the arch of my foot while I’m having sex is a surefire way to get me to climax. If I had to hazard a guess why the foot is such a turn on — aside from there being 7,000 nerve endings in the feet – I’d say I associate my feet with running, something I do that gives me endorphins and makes me feel strong at the same time.
Although kissing the forehead might seem like a gentle and endearing act of affection, it can also be a major source of arousal. Actress and modelKelly Rae Le Gault explains, “When a man kisses my forehead — let’s be real — these aren’t your mama’s kisses. My lower back will just sear like this and it’s almost too much to bear!” She goes on to say that she finds a “crazy connection” between her lower back and forehead. When her forehead gets those soft, ticklish kisses, “My back just above my butt will just throb like it’s aching to be touched. I can’t be the only one who experiences this, right?” Is she? Try it and let her know.
Heavy breathing into my ears — the full ear, not just the lobe — creates an intense sensation for me. Feeling his breath in my ear makes me feel connected to my partner and sends chills down my spine.
The Nape (Neck And Back)
Sara Femenella, co-founder and editor of Screen & Paper magazine, likes a partner to pay special attention to the nape of her neck. “The moment between feeling breath then feeling lips, tongue, teeth is incredible. It’s the combination of anticipation and pleasure foreshadowing what’s to come.” For Life Coach Teresa Wiles DiGregorio, the back of her neck is “second to none in sensitivity.” She elaborates, “I thoroughly enjoy a gentle touch there. A lick, a tickle, a touch: every gentle stroke is noticed and appreciated.”
Nora Zelevansky, author of the recent book “Semi-Charmed Life” jokes that her mouth is where she gets most turned on “because that’s where mozzarella sticks go and I can’t really think of anything that gets me hotter than a plate of fried cheese with marinara sauce.” I value that this funny lady doesn’t take sex so seriously and just has fun with it. “I think my real erogenous zone is probably my funny bone (not recently bumped),” she told me. “A good dry joke is more likely to attract me than anything.”
Monica telling Chandler how to satisfy a woman..
(the 7 spots are the women’s erogenous zones according to Monica)